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One fine day, Bird leaves the nest !!!

Few months / years back, my Dad's kids were inseparable. Talking school / college gossip, office nuisance, technical talks, philosophy diggings, self made theories, analysis, conclusions, everything was routine. Whole day chit chat and my Mom was like 'How much you guys have to talk?'

That time probably we never thought of being apart. Even our Dad dreamt of a big house where we 3 will be together forever (no joking, seriously !!!).

But as they say - Only permanence in universe, is Change.

As Wheels of Time rolled to add number of greys, we grew up in our careers, got better opportunities for better growth; money and things kept moving. And, now when I look back, we three are at three difference places, busy in our own new daily routine, We still do all the talking / gossiping, but far less than how it was earlier. We probably could have never imagined that, we would survive with this less talking to each other.

However, as the saying goes, a Bird will always leave the Nest. That's the Nature.

Everyone has to their own part to play and contribute. However, important is, we are still inseparable even after being apart.

Point is - Distance doesn't make or break a bond / relation. Even when someone is away, that wouldn't diminish the relationship, nor being close by would better a relationship. It is up to us, how we enrich ourselves from feeling of togetherness.

We leave school, college; switch jobs; change houses, premises, because this is how life takes us for ride.

Leaving is part of life, while being together is a choice.
We have no choice but to ride wheels of time alone, still we always have an option not to loose touch.
Nothing or no one  is permanent in life, except yourself.  
Live for what and who matter today.
 

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